Alpha Connection

An Atmosphere of Relationships, creating an Arena of Change!

1. What’s the conflict; why do you need to make a decision? 2. What’s your goal; what do you want to happen? 3. What are your options; what can you do? Do you follow the crowd or do your own thing? 4. What are the consequences; what are the bad things that can happen? 5. What’s your decision; what did you decide to do? 6. Reflect on it; did you make the right decision?

Check your game plan

Some decisions are easy to make. Others are tough. Use these steps to help make the right decisions for yourself- especially the tough ones.

Take responsibility for your actions now! Program your life for success.

Think about the consequences of your decisions. Know when and how to say no. Uphold positive values. Stop conflicts before they start. Practice making well thought out decisions.

Ways to manage conflict

1. Stay cool 2. Talk it over 3. Focus on the problem 4. Look for a compromise 5. Know when to walk away 6. Be a leader 7. Be a friend 8. Be reasonable 9. Be responsible 10. Practice real courage and put your ego aside

10 Ways to say no

1. Take a stand

2. Warn about the consequences

3. Add a little humor

4. Suggest something else

5. Steer clear

6. Reverse the pressure

7. Walk away

8. Ask a question

9. Give an excuse

10. Give a reason

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